Dear Yvonne, My boyfriend wishes I was more active in bed, but how can I do that? -CC
Dear CC, Take charge. Show off your body - show off how sexual you are.
Instead of letting him lead the way, show him how it's done. Show him how you like to be turned on, how to touch your body. Don't be afraid to seduce him by putting on a strip show or by showing him some hot erotica you want to re-enact. Pounce on his body, and cover it with kisses, love bites and your other wet spot. During sex, take turns being on top. Literally, roll around in the hay. Get into the rhythm of the thrusting while gripping and clawing and making some noise. Be insatiable. Let him know how good he feels. Tell him what you want to do to him.
All too often, women hold back during sex, afraid to tap into their inner sex goddess. As a result, they always let their partner lead the way. Put any inhibitions aside and just go for it!
She is the author of several books including, "Touch Me There! A Hands-On Guide to Your Orgasmic Hot Spots."