Dear Yvonne, My wife has several sex toys, some of which we both enjoy. However, she does have a few in the phallus department that are somewhat large. I am concerned these will stretch her vagina out and her sensitivity to me will diminish. She says she will shrink back to a smaller size. What are your thoughts? -Jeff
Dear Jeff, Given that a female's vaginal canal can stretch to handle a baby, you really don't have much to worry about. Whether she's planning to give birth or use a large object when self-pleasuring, a woman can maintain her pelvic musculature and sensitivity by practicing Kegel exercises. Learning to properly flex her pubbococcygeus (PC) muscle, a.k.a. pelvic floor muscles, a woman can have a "fit" vagina, which allows her to better grip phalluses of all sizes for more amazing sensations - for both of you!
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