Sexpert Q&A: Most Popular Sex Themes

Dear Yvonne, What is the most popular question you get from your readers? And why do you think that is? -Rhoda

Dear Rhoda, I would say that there's more of a most popular theme than question I get from readers when it comes to their curiosities or dilemmas. The theme is: Am I normal? Many readers want to know if certain kinds of sex and such intimacy is "dirty," "immoral" or "wrong." Most people are uncomfortable that such unattractive labels could be applied to their sex life. They also want to make sure that they're doing things "right," as people like to be rewarded or the thought of being accomplished at something. They are mortified at the prospect of being labeled terrible at an activity, especially one that is so natural, yet involves so much judgment from others.

Dr. Yvonne KristAn Fulbright is a sex educator, relationship expert, columnist and founder of

Sexuality Source Inc.

She is the author of several books including, "Touch Me There! A Hands-On Guide to Your Orgasmic Hot Spots."