Dear Yvonne, Do you have any recommendations for people who want to wait a while before having sex or who, for moral/religious reasons, want to wait until they are married? Does this limit intimacy? Does this mean you have to date only other people who abstain? -Heather
Dear Heather, Outercourse is a term used for pleasuring possibilities that don't involve vaginal-penile or anal intercourse. Depending on a couple's definition of abstinence, these behaviors may include:
- Sensual massage
- Mutual masturbation
- Erotic talk, for example, via phone or e-mail
- Strip-teases
- Kissing
- Showering or bathing together
- Sharing sexy fantasies
- Engaging in role plays that don't involve intercourse
- Dry sex (also known as "dry humping")
Dr. Yvonne KristAn Fulbright is a sex educator, relationship expert, columnist and founder of
She is the author of several books including, "Touch Me There! A Hands-On Guide to Your Orgasmic Hot Spots."
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