Dear Dr. Yvonne, I want to put on a really hot strip tease for my boyfriend, and would love any tips you have. -Barb
Dear Barb, No matter what kinds of moves you have in you, the two keys to successful stripping are (1) to move slowly and seductively, and (2) to work it with mucho attitude. In putting on your show, try grinding up against him using a dry humping motion; give him light touches; slap your backside; grab the parts of your body where you've got some meat; run your fingers over your curves; and give him some tongue action - occasionally catching your breath by lapping your sexy kitty self.
Other things to keep in mind ... if you've got a mane of hair to work with, use it. Get wild with it, pretending you're one of those rocker chics in a bad hair band video. Make eye contact an art form, giving him the occasional glance. This indicates that while you are doing this for him, you're also into yourself - you're enjoying your own show. Other tips ... throw on some good music for this kind of action, e.g., Aerosmith. Make sure you're wearing the right kind of lingerie - thigh highs and a garter are definitely in order. Try wearing breast tassles. Do your homework. Rent 9 1/2 Weeks and watch Kim Basinger do her thing. If it's your thing, go to a strip club and pick up some moves from the professionals, especially on how to give a lap dance. Doing this together is also a wild and wicked form for foreplay for some, sure to get the two of you eager to run home for your own private performance.
Dr. Yvonne KristAn Fulbright is a sex educator, relationship expert, columnist and founder of
She is the author of several books including, "Touch Me There! A Hands-On Guide to Your Orgasmic Hot Spots."
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