Lindsay Lohan is a handful.

That seems to be the realization Samantha Ronson is coming to, according to the New York Post. A source tells the paper the two are "fighting like cats and dogs" and seeing a couple's counselor to figure out how to get a handle on their relationship.

And this is one relationship that anyone would have a hard time getting a handle on.

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Lindsay recently insisted to Vogue magazine that she was not a lesbian, but was indeed in love with Samantha, who is a woman.

There have also been reports of her flirting with Gossip Girl star Chace Crawford and ex-boyfriend Calum Best. And it may be getting to Sam.

"Sam and Lindsay are still very much together and very much in love, but drama just seems to follow Lindsay, and Sam hates it," a source tells the Post. "She deals with Lindsay every day. And every day for Sam means questioning, 'Is this worth it?' "

Lohan's rep said she was unaware of any therapy sessions.

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