You’ve finally met that certain someone and the thought of Valentine’s Day is enough to make your heart do flips. You’ve reserved the perfect table for two at the hottest new restaurant in town, but there’s one thing that’s still got you a little anxious … the wine list.

Sure, you like the occasional glass of red wine when you’re out with friends or at a dinner party, but for your upcoming evening of l’amour you want to splurge on something special. So just how do you select the right bottle of wine and avoid looking foolish in the process? Here are a few insider tips to ordering wine like a pro this Valentine’s Day: