A nurse in Australia is speaking out on social media after an acquaintance dismissed her as “just a nurse.” Caitlin Brassington wrote an emotional post on Instagram and Facebook next to a photo of herself in scrubs in which she says she’s heard that comment “many, many times” in the past 18 years as a nurse—and it finally got to her.
“I have helped babies into the world, many of whom needed assistance to take their first breath, and yet I am just a nurse," she wrote in a post that’s been liked more than 3,600 times on Facebook. "I have held patients' hands and ensured their dignity while they take their last breath, and yet I am just a nurse. I have counseled grieving parents after the loss of a child, and yet I am just a nurse. I have performed CPR on patients and brought them back to life, and yet I am just a nurse."
'Just a Nurse'. I am just home from a busy shift, looking very ordinary in my scrubs. On the way home today I stopped at the shop for milk and saw an acquaintance. She has never seen me in uniform and said that she didn't realise I was 'just a nurse'. Wow! Over my 18 year career I have heard this phrase many, many time, but today it got to me. Am I just a nurse? I have helped babies into the world, many of whom needed assistance to take their first breath, and yet I am just a nurse. I have held patients hands and ensured their dignity while they take their last breath, and yet I am just a nurse. I have counselled grieving parents after the loss of a child, and yet I am just a nurse. I have performed CPR on patients and brought them back to life, and yet I am just a nurse. I am the medical officers eyes, ears and hands with the ability to assess, treat and manage your illness, and yet I am just a nurse. I can ascultate every lung field on a newborn and assess which field may have a decreased air entry, and yet I am just a nurse. I can educate patients, carers, and junior nurses, and yet I am just a nurse. I am my patients advocate in a health system that does not always put my patients best interest first, and yet I am just a nurse. I will miss Christmas Days, my children's birthdays, and school musicals to come to work to care for your loved one, and yet I am just a nurse. I can take blood, cannulate and suture a wound, and yet I am just a nurse. I can manage a cardiac arrest in a newborn, a child or an adult, and yet I am just a nurse. I can tell you the dosage of adrenaline or amiodarone based on weight that your child may need to bring them back to life, and yet I am just a nurse. I have the experience and knowledge that has saved people's lives. So, if I am just a nurse, then I am ridiculously proud to be one! #justanurse #love #nurse #mum #happy #taganurse #thankanurse #proud #workingmom #proudtobejustanurse
Brassington also points out that she acts as the eyes, ears, and hands of medical officers, and misses Christmas Days and her children’s birthdays to care for people. “I have the experience and knowledge that has saved people's lives,” she concluded. “So, if I am just a nurse, then I am ridiculously proud to be one!”
Commenters applauded her remarks and shared their own stories of nursing. “I too used to nurse,” one wrote. “You have summed up what we do except taking verbal and physical abuse while having to turn the other cheek. Nobody to dry your tears or understand them. As you said, just a nurse.” Another said, “As nurses we don't do what we do for thanks or praise, but when you get it, it's lovely to be appreciated.”
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Homayoon Sanati, M.D., a medical oncologist and medical director of the MemorialCare Breast Center at California’s Orange Coast Memorial Medical Center, agrees. “A medical team is very large and they are part of the puzzle,” he tells SELF. “They do a lot of the work that is often unrecognized.” When patients are admitted to a hospital, nurses often start IV treatments, get vital signs, and stabilize the patient, he says. And, he points out, while nurses get orders from doctors, the actual treatment is often carried out by nurses. “They’re a very, very important part of the care,” he says.
Nurses also serve people in many different settings, Sanati notes—they can be inpatient or outpatient, work in ICUs, manage medical floors in a hospital, do end-of-life care, home visits, and see their own patients as nurse practitioners. “Really, they are the front-line of our medical care,” he says.
Nurse practitioners, who are qualified to treat patients without the direct supervision of a doctor, advocate for individuals and often allow them to get medicine at reduced rate, Patrick Hawkins, a nurse practitioner at Michigan State University College of Nursing, tells SELF. Hawkins has been instrumental in providing care during the Flint water crisis, and says a team of nurses put health services into motion for the community. We brought together non-profit and government agencies and conveyed action—the importance of doing it now,” he said. “Nurses advocate, collaborate, and coordinate care.”
Boling says it would be “terrible” if nurses didn’t exist. “Who would take care of patients in the hospital?” she said. “Doctors cannot be sitting by every patient’s bedsite. Without nurses, you’d have people dying right and left.”
Hawkins agrees. “It is not that I am ‘just’ a nurse—I am a nurse and there is a big difference,” he says.