Whether you’re a new mom or a seasoned mama, you need to pay attention to your looks. No, we’re not being frivolous here. You have to like yourself to feel good about who you are. Dolling up for Valentine’s Day—or any day—will help you remember that above all, you are a woman, and a strong, beautiful one at that. Following are some tips to pick your look and achieve it effortlessly, whether you are spending the night dining in with your honey while the baby sleeps or dining out at the finest restaurant.