By Michael Bartiromo
Published March 20, 2019
A 56-year-old woman who was hoping to find true love has instead found herself hundreds of thousands of dollars poorer thanks to an online scammer.
The woman, identified as a California hairdresser named “Yin,” was bilked out of $273,000 by a man she met on Match.com, and who identified himself as a major with the U.S. Marines, KABC reported. Now, she’s sharing her story with the outlet in order to warn other online daters of scam artists who may be seeking to pull the same stunt.
Yin said she joined Match.com because she wasn’t meeting many new people between her job at the salon and her caring for her mother. She soon met a man named “David Perez,” who identified himself as a Marine, and told her he was to be deployed to Afghanistan. Yin fell in love with Perez, and began exchanging messages and texts over the next month.
He had even sent her pictures of a man dressed in military uniform — a reporter for KABC, Dan Noyes, is currently seeking out the Marine whose photos the scammer used in order to convince her of his lies.
"I fell in love with him quickly, you know," Yin told KABC’s Dan Noyes. "Like really deeply fall in love with him, trust in everything he said."
After five weeks, Perez convinced Yin he needed money before heading off on a secret mission, conning her out of a total of $273,000.
He then promised to meet her at an Oakland restaurant for her birthday, but never showed. And that’s when she realized she’d been had.
Yin contacted the FBI and filed a complaint, but has yet to hear back. Match.com has refunded her membership fees and deleted Perez’s profile, and the company provided a statement to KABC claiming that less than 0.01 percent of users reported scams in 2018. The site itself also offers information on avoiding such scams, a spokesperson noted in an email to Fox News.
"At Match, the safety and well-being of our community is a top priority, and we take the issue of fraud very seriously," a representative added to Fox News. "These scams are rare, but that doesn’t make them any less upsetting. Match has a dedicated team and sophisticated technology that patrols for fraud and reviews each and every member profile to block IP addresses from high alert countries, stolen credit card numbers and red flag language in profiles. But, the bottom line is that users should never ever send money to someone you haven't met in person, and report the individual who asks you to do so. Those two steps will stop almost every scam in its tracks and help protect the next potential victim."
Yin, meanwhile, has reportedly lost her life savings. She’s also declined to reveal her true identity, as she hasn’t told her family of the scam.
A study of romance-related scams co-authored by a Better Business Bureau investigator estimates that scammers have cheated Americans and Canadians of around $1 billion since 2015, Yahoo Lifestyle reports.