Tori Spelling has not publicly addressed the rampant rumors that her husband Dean McDermott cheated on her but according to People magazine the reality star is “devastated” by the alleged affair.

“She’s much more heartbroken than anyone realized,” a friend of Spelling’s told the magazine.

"She's flipping out and is completely devastated. Remember early last year when the tabloids wrote something [about marriage troubles] and she blasted them on her website?" added the pal. "Now she's not even doing that."

The 40-year-old TV personality has been photographed out and about with her four children who the friend says Spelling “worships,” – Liam, 6 , Stella, 5, Hattie, 2 and Finn, 15 months.

And whether she will stay in the marriage is not clear.

"I don't think she even knows what she's going to do right now," explained the source. "I don't know if she's strong enough to leave him right now with everything she's going through and four young kids. She could stay with him or not. God only knows."

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