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Just as they left them: Items left behind by Flight 370 missing now full of meaning for kin

  • This Feb. 28, 2015, photo, shows the bedroom of Andrew Nari, 50, in his house outside Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. Nari was the Chief Steward aboard flight 370 when it disappeared March 8, 2014, while flying from Kuala Lumpur to Beijing. Nari's wife, Melanie Antonio, 46, says "nothing has changed" in their shared bedroom "besides the new shared wardrobe." (AP Photo/Joshua Paul)

    This Feb. 28, 2015, photo, shows the bedroom of Andrew Nari, 50, in his house outside Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. Nari was the Chief Steward aboard flight 370 when it disappeared March 8, 2014, while flying from Kuala Lumpur to Beijing. Nari's wife, Melanie Antonio, 46, says "nothing has changed" in their shared bedroom "besides the new shared wardrobe." (AP Photo/Joshua Paul)  (The Associated Press)

  • This Monday March 2, 2015, photo shows the master bedroom of David Tan Size Hiang, 47, a flight attendant who was aboard Malaysian Airlines flight 370 when it disappeared last March, in his house outside Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. Hiang's wife, Elaine Chew, 36, says "I have not changed anything except the sheets. Our daughter has slept with us since the day she was born, now its just me and her." (AP Photo/Joshua Paul)

    This Monday March 2, 2015, photo shows the master bedroom of David Tan Size Hiang, 47, a flight attendant who was aboard Malaysian Airlines flight 370 when it disappeared last March, in his house outside Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. Hiang's wife, Elaine Chew, 36, says "I have not changed anything except the sheets. Our daughter has slept with us since the day she was born, now its just me and her." (AP Photo/Joshua Paul)  (The Associated Press)

  • This Saturday, Feb. 28, 2015, photo, shows the master bedroom of Foong Wai Yueng, 40, a stewardess who was aboard Malaysian Airlines flight 370 when it disappeared last March, in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. Yueng’s husband, Lee Khim Fatt, 45, says  "I have not changed or moved anything except changing the sheets, as the kids have always slept with us here. But ever since that day, I sleep on the floor mattress with my son. It doesn't feel the same, doesn't feel right sleeping on the mattress without her beside me." (AP Photo/Joshua Paul)

    This Saturday, Feb. 28, 2015, photo, shows the master bedroom of Foong Wai Yueng, 40, a stewardess who was aboard Malaysian Airlines flight 370 when it disappeared last March, in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. Yueng’s husband, Lee Khim Fatt, 45, says "I have not changed or moved anything except changing the sheets, as the kids have always slept with us here. But ever since that day, I sleep on the floor mattress with my son. It doesn't feel the same, doesn't feel right sleeping on the mattress without her beside me." (AP Photo/Joshua Paul)  (The Associated Press)

Lee Khim Fatt doesn't sleep in his bed anymore. Instead, he sleeps on the floor next to it. "It doesn't feel the same, doesn't feel right sleeping on the mattress without her beside me," he said.

Fatt's wife, Foong Wai Yueng, 40, was a stewardess aboard Malaysia Airlines Flight 370, which went off course and vanished March 8, 2014, on its way from Kuala Lumpur to Beijing. One year later, relatives of the 239 people aboard still have no idea what happened to them.

Without evidence that the plane crashed, it's hard for family members to begin grieving and start to find closure, psychologists say. In the meanwhile, the grief, hope, anger — all the emotions they feel — are often wrapped up in the things the missing left behind — their clothes, their rooms, the smallest things.

Patrick Gomes' shorts are still right where he left them a year ago, draped over the left corner of his bed frame. Elaine Chew has left no marks on her daughter's makeshift growth chart, saying her husband, flight attendant David Tan Size Hiang, can do it when he finally comes home.

"I'm not going to change or move anything, just let it be the way it is," Fatt said of a wardrobe filled with his wife's uniforms and other belongings. "I believe she will come home, and things will be just how it was before."

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