A married person's number one tool for being more Christ-like is their spouse, says evangelical pastor Rick Warren.

Warren, who oversees Saddleback Church in Southern California, said in a devotional this week that God has given people the gift of a spouse to help them perfect their character and make them closer to Him.

"God created marriage for the perfection of our character. It is in relationships that we learn to be unselfish and loving. And no relationship has greater impact on your life than marriage if you get married," the pastor writes, noting in the devotional that this is true if someone chooses to marry.

Warren goes on to say that the purpose of life is to grow up and realize that "it's not all about you," and there's no better way to live a selfless, loving life than through undying sacrifice for your spouse.

"[…] real happiness comes in giving your life away and being unselfish and serving and loving," Warren writes, suggesting that learning the skill of selflessness is "the most important thing in life because God is love, and he wants you to become like him. He wants to make you like Jesus Christ. He wants you to build character."

For married people, the most important God-given tool for building character is their spouse, Warren says, because "every day you get hundreds of opportunities to not think about yourself but instead about the other person."

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