Whether it's a blowout argument or a dinner-table disagreement, a spat with your lover can be trying.

Humans have, of course, devised ways of making up, including tight hugs and the customary apology — flowers.

Killer whales have their own tricks for mending relations, a new study finds. Rather than a bouquet, however, they might opt for an intimate swim.

Studies have shown that chimpanzees kiss and hug after a dispute, and that their close cousins bonobos resort to sexual activity to resolve conflicts.

But until now, reconciliatory behavior had not been shown in any marine mammal.

For the past five years, Michael Noonan, a psychologist and specialist in animal behavior at Canisius College in Buffalo, N.Y., has been studying captive killer whales at the Marineland of Canada theme park in Niagara Falls, Ontario.

To learn more about orca social behavior, Noonan videotaped a group of captive killer whales for a total of 2,800 hours.

"Nearly all social animals occasionally squabble," Noonan said.

He noted 21 disagreements, many of which involved complicated interactions between several whales.

Most notably, the video revealed eight unambiguous quarrels between one mating pair. The disputes entailed aggressive chasing, Noonan said.

Orcas, the largest members of the dolphin family, can reach swimming speeds at sea of 30 miles per hour (50 kilometers per hour) for short stints.

After the female chased the male for several minutes, each zipped away to separate aquatic quarters to cool off for about 10 minutes.

Then, the mates smoothed over their clash with side-by-side swimming, called echelon swimming.

"In eight out of eight instances, the animals engaged in a pro-social, affiliative behavior shortly after the period of tension," Noonan told LiveScience. "The pro-social behavior was echelon swimming."

Animal-behavior scientists have known that orcas take part in echelon swimming as a form of routine social bonding.

"That these two [killer whales] did it so consistently after periods of tension is the new discovery," Noonan said.

The research was presented at the Animal Behavior Society conference earlier this month in Salt Lake City.

"It shows yet another way in which cetaceans have converged with primates," Noonan said.

Other similarities between the two groups include large brains, long lives and social complexity.

But Noonan is still trying to elucidate some secrets held by these black-and-white mammals. For instance, what triggered the domestic squabbles?

"We are working on that," he said.

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