Even though Drew Barrymore (search) hit a milestone in February, she's no closer to finding all the answers.

"Turning 30 means taking all the things from my 20s that worked, but getting rid of the rest," she told the Chicago Sun-Times in Sunday's editions. "But I'd be lying if I didn't say that there are times when I still don't know who I am."

These days she's in love with singer Fabrizio Moretti (search), the drummer for the band The Strokes (search). Barrymore was married from March 20, 1994, to April 29, 1994, to bartender Jeremy Thomas. She wed comedian Tom Green in 2001 and the union lasted a few months.

"As you know, I've tried marriage, but I haven't tried children yet. I always knew I wasn't ready," said Barrymore, who has a new film, "Fever Pitch," opposite Jimmy Fallon opening this week.

"As much as I've experimented with many things in life, starting a family wasn't something I wanted to experiment with. I didn't want to see if I was ready. I want to be ready. I want to be the smartest, most selfless version of myself before I have children.

"It will be a few more years, but never say never," she said.