Patricia Blagojevich's father, sister and brother are refuting the foul-mouthed portrait that's been drawn of Illinois Gov. Rod Blagojevich's wife since his arrest, saying the first lady has been living in a pressure cooker.

Chicago Alderman Dick Mell, state Representative-elect Deborah Mell and Rich Mell told the Chicago Sun-Times and NBC5 in an exclusive interview Wednesday that profanity-laced comments recorded by federal prosecutors don't reflect who Patricia Blagojevich really is.

"That is absolutely not my sister," Deborah Mell said. "Patti is a mother, a sister and a devoted wife.

"She is particularly protective of her family."

In a complaint released Tuesday, prosecutors say the 52-year-old Blagojevich plotted to sell President-elect Barack Obama's vacant Senate seat. In the criminal complaint against him, his 43-year-old wife emerges in recorded phone conversations as a scheming woman who tried to punish those who got in her way.

According to the complaint, Patricia Blagojevich was the voice in the background spewing an ugly suggestion to "just fire" some newspaper editors if the Tribune Co. hoped for state assistance to sell Wrigley Field, the storied home of the Chicago Cubs.

"Hold up that (expletive) Cubs (expletive)," she says as her husband is talking on the telephone. "(Expletive) them."

Patricia Blagojevich's family acknowledged the harsh language contained on the recordings but said those words were uttered at a stressful time as both she and her husband were under federal scrutiny.

"I can understand it. This a pressure cooker she's living in," Deborah Mell said.

Part of her stress stems from an ongoing investigation into her successful career as a real estate agent, which she walked away from earlier this year. The Chicago Tribune reported that federal agents are probing whether clients hired her to win favor from her husband's administration.

Patricia Blagojevich has not been charged with any wrongdoing in either case, and she has not spoken publicly since her husband's arrest.

Dick Mell said his oldest daughter is "loyal sometimes to a fault" and would "jump down (his) throat" when he argued with Rod Blagojevich at holiday gatherings.

Dick Mell helped his son-in-law in his first run for governor, but a year after his election in 2002, the alderman publicly questioned if Blagojevich fundraisers were trading political contributions for state jobs.

"At that time, I felt that I was right to say what I said. I don't know, that's ancient history," Mell said.

A breach formed between father and daughter and Mell said a conversation he had with Patricia Blagojevich Wednesday was the first time they had spoken in "quite a while."

"She said she's going through a rough time," he said. "But she said, as rough as it is, what happened two years ago when her mother died was harder."

Deborah Mell said the Blagojevich's children, 12-year-old Amy and 5-year-old Annie, weren't being teased in school. But Rich Mell said he is upset by the scrutiny of Patricia, Amy, and Annie.

"There's a family involved," Rich Mell said. "It makes me angry."

Deborah Mell, who will be sworn in as a state representative next month, said she didn't know how she'd vote if a vote to impeach her brother-in-law came before the General Assembly.

"I don't know what's going to happen. I'll cross that bridge when I come to it," she said. "I've thought about it briefly. That's not my focus right now."