Christina Aguilera has already walked down the aisle and despite having a ring on her finger from fiancé Matt Rutler, she is not in any rush to say ‘I do.’
“We discuss it when we’re snuggling in bed, but it’s a casual conversation,” the singer revealed in a new interview with Women’s Health magazine.
Aguilera, 35, and Rutler, 30, have been engaged for nearly two years after he proposed to the “Fighter” singer on Valentine’s Day in 2014. They welcomed daughter Summer Rain several months later.
“The Voice” judge, who also shares son Max, 8, with ex-husband Jordan Bratman, is all about spending time with her kids (and having days for herself from time to time) and believes it’s unfair the pressure put on women to “do it all.”
“Mothers are constantly expected to be the nurturers, the givers, the providers of a comfortable home,” she told the magazine. “We’re expected to be pregnant, have the kids, breastfeed once we have the babies. And we’re expected to look amazing after baby, right?"
And, she added, women also have to make sure to keep their significant others happy.
“Keep our husbands and boyfriends interested — because we’re supposed to get back to sexy and keep things exciting in the bedroom. There’s such a long list.”
However, at the end of the day, Aguilera would not change motherhood for anything in the world.
"Having children is the ultimate joy, and I love my kids. But women have to find time to nurture themselves. If someone has a baby, the first thing I’m like is, ‘Okay, are you taking care of you?’” she said.