**FILE** Actress Sandra Bullock laughs as she watches the video board with her husband Jesse James during the Los Angeles Kings' NHL hockey game against the Anaheim Ducks, in this Oct. 22, 2006 file photo in Los Angeles. Before she got to know him, Bullock says she tagged her husband as a brutish "bigot." (AP Photo/Mark J. Terrill, file)
It's been three years since Sandra Bullock split from her husband Jesse James but she has no desire to go backward and examine what happened, especially not publicly.
Days after Bullock won the Best Actress Oscar for "The Blind Side," tabloids reported James had cheated on her.
She reacted swiftly, by going under the radar and filing for divorce.
Now she tells Vogue, "We're all where we're supposed to be" and "I'm grateful that I'm here, blessed to have what I have."
What Bullock has is a 3-year-old son named Louis who she adopted in January 2010, in the middle of awards season. She managed to keep him a secret for the first few months of his life.
Vogue's Oct. issue goes on sale Sept. 24.