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Just over four months ago, Tito Ortiz hit worldwide headlines after he was arrested following an alleged domestic dispute against his girlfriend and mother of their one-year-old twin boys, Jenna Jameson.

The UFC champ claimed he was trying to help the retired XXX actress amid a relapse to an OxyContin addiction – an accusation Jameson later denied.

But on Sunday night, the two appeared as happy as could be at the MTV VMAs in Los Angeles.

“It's date night! Sunday date night! We're mom and dad now so we really don't go out that often but the VMA's, this is the spot to be,” Jameson exclaimed to Pop Tarts.

And it seems Jenna is just as comfortable playing a parent as she was playing porn princess.

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“It’s always tough, being a mom and dad – it's the hardest job in the world, but it's really worth it,” she said. “They speak Spanish so their first word was ‘agua’ which is really cute! We don't speak Spanish but I'm really trying to teach them as much as possible.”

As far as Tito is concerned, a Spanish tongue is priority.

“With a last name like Ortiz, my parents didn't teach me any Spanish, so I think they should be bilingual,” he piped in. “They've got to know Spanish.”

Jameson is also busy penning a follow-up to her 2004 New York Times bestseller “How to Make Love Like a Porn Star” – although it appears this one shall take quite a different tone.

“I haven't titled it yet, but I am working on my second book about being a mom and also being ‘Jenna Jameson as a mom,’” she said. “I want to be remembered for being somebody who didn't follow the rules. I did what I wanted to do and I think it's really important for women to be free and not be stigmatized. I felt like led the movement a little bit so I want to be an icon.”

So given her success in what was previously a very male-dominated industry, would Jameson recommend other young woman pursue such a lifestyle?

“No. It's a hard lifestyle and I made the choice and I was able to get through it unscathed but I don't recommend it to anybody,” she said.

- Deidre Behar contributed to this report.